Why aren’t my wishes getting fulfilled? Why is it that only my desires and prayers are always left unheard? Look at my friends, they have all that they ever wished for in their lives!” Haven’t almost all of us crossed our paths with at least one such person in our lives, who is always cribbing about whatever he is deprived of today? Or to be more specific, isn’t it that very flustering question which we somehow manage to ignore each day settling for the fact that maybe the situations would be in our favour tomorrow? That may be our prayers are somehow a part of a lucky draw system, and maybe our turns would come tomorrow? But sadly, none of us ever tend to accept this reality that the wonderful tomorrow where all our dreams, all our wishes have seemed to come true is never going to become a reality, UNLESS WE STRIVE TO CREATE ONE FOR OURSELVES.
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Is it really worth believing that we can be the creator of our own reality, where everything is just perfect, everything we ever dreamt of having is right there in front of us? Well definitely yes! You were born knowing that you are the creator of your own reality, and although that desire to do so pulsed within you when you began to integrate into your society, you began to accept much of the same picture that others held of the way your life should unfold. You seemed convinced that their practised way was more valid than yours, and you gradually released the determination of guiding yourself. What if it is told to you that your conditions are a perfect reflection of your habitual thinking? What if all that we desire for could come true just by a little bit of thinking? Well, Even the craziest of the dreams which you could ever think of, would become your reality as if they were already meant to be yours. And this entire beautiful mechanism is named- ‘The Law of Attraction’, which says that a person can manifest their dreams into reality by daily visualisations of their desires and complete faith that the universe will provide it.
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The reason you have not already gotten what you desire is because you are holding yourself in a vibrational pattern that does not match the vibration of your desire. That is the only reason, ever! By paying attention to the way you feel, you can easily know if you are giving attention to your desire or its absence, because nothing can occur in your life without you inviting it through your thought. We often keep hearing from people to always think positive, no matter what. But has anyone ever given it a thought that why does positivity actually hold so much importance? Well, here is an example. Your desire for an improved financial condition cannot come to you if you feel jealous(negative) of your neighbour’s good fortune, for the vibration of your desire and the vibration of your jealous feelings are different vibrations. Hence an understanding of your thoughts will make it possible for you to deliberately create your reality. Every thought that you give your attention to, expands. Whether it is of something you want or not- your attention to it invites it into your experience. But there are times we unintentionally invite negativity into our minds, how are we supposed to figure that out? The answer lies within your emotions. Your emotions are indicators of the thoughts you are currently offering. So when you become aware of your emotions, you can be aware of the thoughts you are offering. When you think a thought that rings true with who you really are, you feel yourself to be in complete harmony: joy, love, freedom are some examples. And when you think the exact opposite, it is disharmony: fear, anger being some examples. Isn’t it surprising to know the kind of role emotions can play in the manifestation of our dreams? Even if one claims to be a master of emotions, still can find a gap arising between him asking for a certain thing in his life and him actually being able to receive it, which happens in most cases. And that gap is us not being in the “receiving mode”. We are not able to allow the manifestations to sink in, because we mostly receive the exact opposite of what we desired for, just because of us giving undivided attention to the lack of it. And hence end up complaining that we never received anything we wanted. The reason that you are not aware that your desires have been answered is that there is often a time gap between your asking, and you allowing. But there are several ways by which we could actually align ourselves with our actual desires and “allow” them to manifest. One of the very powerful means is “the rampage of appreciation”. It is simply directing pleasant thoughts in your mind, which could be as simple as looking around your immediate environment and noticing something that pleases you, and as you focus upon it for longer, your positive feelings about it will increase. Ever wondered why your parents always told you to feel grateful for whatever you have in your life, be it your friends, family, or anything that pleases you? Well, here’s the perfect answer to it! And that is the reason we as kids, were always asked to practise meditation because this would actually help us in realigning our diverted thoughts and make us feel relaxed. ‘Gratitude’, what is it all about? Gratitude is one of the most underestimated ways anybody can use to enrich their lives. It is the feeling and attitude of appreciation and thankfulness for all the good that a person receives in his life. But it should be well distinguished from saying just ‘thanks’ which is often just a matter of words not accompanied by actions which actually indicate a grateful mind. It is a scientifically proven fact that when we express our gratitude towards other people or other things, we tend to feel much happier, positive and calmer and it ultimately paves way for all the positive vibes to surround us.
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When people aren’t grateful, they tend to complain and blame everybody around for all the bad that is happening to them. Isn’t it true? The best part of appreciating or being grateful is that you knowingly or unknowingly receive others’ blessings and good wishes and what could be better than seeing somebody smile because of you. But unfortunately, we all fail to realize its importance and the impact it can create in our lives. The biggest question which arises is- “If not now, then when?” In almost all relations of ordinary life, the feeling of gratitude should be aroused. All of us owe a big ‘Thank You’ to our parents for whatever they have done till date, and will continue to do, which is often taken for granted assuming that it is their duty. Be grateful to your friends, to those friends who never fail to support you and be your back in the most difficult times, who always push you to go that extra mile in life and to those who make your life simpler just by their existence. Be grateful to this society, which by means noticed or unnoticed has shaped you in whatever you are today. Not only them, be grateful to all those people and to everything around you which has successfully added optimism in your life. Practice this, because even the most kind-hearted people grow tired of conferring favours upon those who show no appreciation of such favours.
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Talking about the benefits that Law holds in store for each one of us, they are just tremendous. · Increased positivity in life: even though one might not end up manifesting their desires immediately, the one thing that would surely increase manifold is Positivity. With a positive mindset, you tend to make your life and other’s life better to a considerable degree. · Self-dependence: if you desire something to the extent that it should be yours, it will ultimately be yours. By keeping a firm belief on yourself, you are simply disregarding your reliance on others and improving on your self-dependence for manifesting things in your actual reality. · Improved performance: By visualizing success, you’ll be able to see the improvement in physical performance as well. You’ll be more likely to create scenarios that could become an obstacle for you and how can you overcome these scenarios in order to get success. We always somehow seemed to be having knowledge about all of this in the back of our minds, but never gave it a significant thought as to why they are so essential for us in the long run. And now we all know that by paying attention to the signals, we can orchestrate a future experience that will please us in every way. Go chase your dreams!
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Contributed By- Kanika Tripathi, Content Writer at Mitti Ke Rang
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